The Message "Adultery" Sends to the Children inside a "Christian" family, is that God's Word does not apply to me... The messages comes off as "I choose NOT to obey all parts of His Word - it's OK to pick & choose".
That's just plain self indulgence and sinful pride, in an effort to self justify the sin. God doesn't give us the Liberty to justify our sins because of the sins of another. Adultery and "most" divorce sends a message to our Children whether they be young or adults, that we truly don't believe as Christians what we tried to teach them as their parents.
In most cases - divorce is NOT Biblical, and Adultery is never justified. The world culture brain washes and pushes "Happiness" at all cost, if what you have doesn't make you happy, throw it away and try something else. God gives us avenues to pursue hurting offenses in the Christian Marriage, go to your Deacon or Pastor and find Help the Godly way, don't chase the answers the world offers you for comfort.
Adultery / Divorce - it doesn't just let your spouse hurting behind, it creates a wake of pain, hurt and confusion to your Church Family, close friends, your extended family and your kids - no matter what their ages... It scars for life... That's why God Hates it, and why Christ preached against it.
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